Life is a reflection of YOU!
So don’t worry about changing anybody else.
There is nobody else.
All characters appearing are summoned by you to play roles in your dream based on your stance in consciousness (aka belief).
Therefore, don't curse the mirror—It will just curse back!
Rather, be quiet, still, and alert and allow your life force to return to you—THE SOURCE. And from this space of clarity, you will see that you are already free as Infinity itself.