Let me tell you a little secret that only so many can hear.
You, my dear, must look at those fears consciously and kiss them. Kiss them so deeply and passionately that they have no other option than to yield to your love. And when the fears turn to puddy in your hands, you'll understand that the only way to be a stellar alchemist is to make love to life as if it's the only choice.
And soon, you will realize love is the only choice worth merit.
So fuck the fears